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Personal matchmaking for accomplished single professionals.

Vetted introductions, made by hand. Nothing online — ever.
Trusted since 1983.

Since 1983 Award Winners 2024, 2025 40+ Years Matching LexisNexis Verified By Appointment

Membership is by application, not subscription.
The County Register is a personal matchmaking service for a specific kind of person.

You'll feel at home here if you're:

  • A successful professional, typically aged 40–60
  • Genuinely single and ready for a serious, long-term relationship
  • Comfortable investing in a premium, hands-on service
  • Tired of dating apps and the people you meet on them
  • Someone who values privacy and discretion above all

We may not be the right fit if you're:

  • Looking for casual dating or short-term arrangements
  • Hoping for a free or low-cost introduction service
  • Not yet sure whether you're ready to meet someone

Membership begins from a four-figure investment, reflecting the personal, hand-matched nature of the service.

Why our members left the apps behind.

Why our members left the apps behind.

By the time most of our clients come to us, they've spent years on Match, Bumble, Hinge, or Tinder — and they're done.

They're done with photos that don't match the person. With matches who turn out to be married. With endless small talk that goes nowhere. With the strange, exhausting feeling of being a profile rather than a person.

Every introduction we make is to someone we have personally met, interviewed, and verified through LexisNexis. Your photographs and details are never published online. Your profile is never seen by anyone who hasn't been hand-chosen as a potential match.

This is what dating used to be — before the apps. We've never done it any other way.

A Face to Face Professional Dating Service

Our dating service is both traditional and discerning. We meet all clients either in their own home, at our office, a convenient location or over a video call. Becoming a member, you will receive a confidential, caring and professional dating service delivered to you by a highly experienced professional matchmaker.

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A Face to Face Professional Dating Service
Matchmaking since 1983

The UK's Most Experienced Matchmaking Team

Still supported by our founder Heather Heber Percy, we have the most experienced team working in personal matchmaking in the UK and we have been delighted to see many happy clients go on to find new and exciting relationships brought about through our matchmaking endeavours. As a client, you can expect one to one support from your personal matchmaker who will be drawing on that depth of experience and the understanding this brings to the table, whilst the search is underway for your new partner.

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Safe & Discreet Personal Matchmaking

We look forward to getting to know you as a potential member and will be happy to answer any questions you may have about our memberships. Should you decide to become a member, everyone you meet through us, will have been personally interviewed, profiled and ID validated, saving you time and providing peace of mind.

Safe & Discreet Personal Matchmaking
  • Educated, intelligent, vetted matches based on your requirements.
  • Bespoke coaching.
  • Personal photographs to show you in your best light.
  • Privacy and confidentiality guaranteed.
  • Single matches only. People who are genuinely free and looking to start a new and honest relationship.
  • Expert Guidance. To advise, counsel or simply listen. We will be there for you

Multi-Award winning Dating Agency

The County Register has won the prestigious "Dating Agency Of The Year" for the last two years in a row. Our highly successful team have also acquired many personal awards

Each match is carefully selected

Your Personal Matchmaker has access to the largest client base in the UK of single, eligible and professional people looking for genuine, long term relationships.

"David had an interesting career and is good company, we both enjoy spending time together, he also has a great sense of humour which is so important as we get older and are able to laugh at ourselves! Living alone can be lonely, so, thank you for the introduction which has brought happiness to my life."

A Highly Experienced and Professional Team

We are here to support each and every client throughout their membership.

Team Of Dating Experts & Matchmakers

Celebrating over 40 years
of exceptional service.

Est. 1983 · Shropshire

A Quiet Institution,
Forty Years in The Making

Long before “matchmaking” became a marketing word, The County Register was already doing it — discreetly, by hand, from a stone lodge on the Earl of Plymouth’s estate. Four decades later, the founder still reads every file.


“Not a dating app. Not a call centre. A private introductions service with roots, judgement and a long memory.”
The Origin · 1983

It began at a School Gate in Ludlow.

Two young mothers stood waiting for their children and discussed the same quiet problem — where, exactly, were the professional men and women of rural England supposed to meet one another? There was no answer. So Heather Heber Percy — divorced, raising two daughters, a former Pretty Polly model who had given her evenings to the Samaritans — set about providing one.

She named it Country Partners and ran it from The Lodge on the Plymouth estate. The clients came by word of mouth, as they still largely do.

The Lodge on the Earl of Plymouth's estate in Shropshire — original home of Country Partners, 1983.
Libra moored on the Thames at Chiswick.
The Dutch barge Libra — first London office of The County Register.
The Dutch barge Libra — first London office of The County Register.
The Libra's salon — period interior where members were received for interview.
London · Late 1980s

A Dutch Barge on The Thames.

When the firm outgrew Shropshire, Heather took the unconventional step of mooring its first London office aboard Libra, a Dutch barge in Chiswick Harbour. Members would arrive for their interview by gangplank.

It was an early lesson in the company’s character: serious about its work, never quite conventional about its surroundings. The Mayfair offices came later. The temperament did not change.


As recorded by the national press

A Name The Broadsheets Already Know.

Daily Express, 19 October 1991: 'Cupid to the upper classes' — feature on Heather Heber Percy.
Daily Express · 1991 “Cupid to the upper classes.”
The Independent, 3 July 1993: profile of Heather Heber Percy.
The Independent · 1993 A weekend profile of the founder.
Daily Mail, 3 July 1993: 'Bringing together muck and magic.'
Daily Mail · 1993 “Bringing together muck and magic.”
Daily Mail FEMAIL cover story, 9 December 1993: 'You want someone who is financially your equal.'
Daily Mail FEMAIL · Dec 1993 “You want someone who is financially your equal.”

Heather Heber Percy, founder of The County Register — portrait, The Independent, 1993.
Contemporary cartoon: 'Oh, do hurry up Carruthers — it looks as if that nice Mrs Heber Percy is in the club today!'
The Founder, Still at Her Desk

Forty-Two Years.
One Pair of Hands on The Tiller.

Heather chaired the Association of British Introduction Agencies for seventeen years, and afterwards the Dating Agency Association. The County Register has been named Dating Agency of the Year three years running. None of which she mentions unless asked.

What she will tell you is that she still personally oversees the introductions, still picks up the telephone, and still believes the only way to do this work properly is the way she began doing it in 1983 — slowly, by hand, with judgement.

  • Tenure Chair, ABIA — 17 years
  • Industry Chair, The Dating Agency Association
  • Recognition Dating Agency of the Year — three consecutive years
  • Continuity Founder still personally involved, 1983 to today
Nationwide Matchmaking

Connecting Singles Across the UK

Our dedicated matchmakers provide personalized matchmaking services throughout the UK, ensuring access to exceptional singles in every region. Explore our featured locations:

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  • East of England
  • Matchmaking East Midlands
  • Greater London
  • North East
  • North West
  • Scotland
  • South East England
  • South West
  • Wales
  • West Midlands
  • Yorkshire & the Humber

"...Chris first sent me a text and since that day, our love for each other has grown more and more. We are both living the best life together..."

— Caroline, 54, South East England, joined 2021 · together 2022

"...We recently celebrated my birthday and I was incredibly spoiled and treated like never before. I did not realise that there were such good men on this planet and we are so well matched and love everything we do together..."

— Julia, 52, Home Counties, joined 2022 · in a relationship 2023

"...I don't think we've stopped smiling! I am telling all my friends to join The County Register and you may have quite a number of Elizabeth referrals..."

— Elizabeth, 58, Wiltshire, joined 2022 · engaged 2024

"...I am so grateful to you for introducing me to Susan. As you told me she's an absolute delight. We share so many interests and seem to have found that elusive thing we call chemistry which is exciting for both of us..."

— Richard, 61, Gloucestershire, joined 2021 · in a relationship 2022

"...well, well, well — what do you say to the person who has given you the greatest gift in life — the greatest love and joy one can imagine! We have just celebrated the 6 month anniversary of being introduced by you and having each other in our lives..."

— Amanda, 56, Berkshire, joined 2023 · together 2024

"...I did lunch yesterday for Peter. On our walk, he said he is my man and we agreed to be together as I have fallen for him. He is a wonderful and caring person. Peter said to me we need to stop The County Register as we are together..."

— Victoria, 60, Oxfordshire, joined 2023 · in a relationship 2024

Tailored Matchmaking Packages

We offer a selection of bespoke membership packages, designed to provide a personalised matchmaking experience for every client.

  • Smiling couple using laptop together

    Portfolio Membership

  • Smiling mature couple embracing outdoors

    Executive Membership

  • Couple embracing outdoors in a field

    Bespoke Membership

Prices from £6,950

Frequently Asked Questions About Our Matchmaking Service

What does membership cost?

Membership begins from a four-figure investment and increases depending on the level of service, geographic reach, and the depth of matching you require. We'll give you a clear, specific figure during your consultation — no hidden fees, no ongoing subscription surprises. If cost is the deciding factor, this probably isn't the right fit. If you're serious about finding the right person, it's one of the most considered investments you'll make.

How long does it take to be matched?

Most members receive their first introduction within four to eight weeks of joining. We don't rush the process — a well-considered introduction is worth more than a fast one. Your matchmaker will keep you informed throughout and will only introduce you to someone they genuinely believe could be the right fit.

Is it really confidential?

Yes, completely. Your photographs and personal details are never published online or placed in any searchable database. Every potential match is verified in person and through LexisNexis before an introduction is made. Meetings are arranged privately. Nobody knows you're a member unless you choose to tell them.

What if I don't meet anyone?

We'll be honest with you about the terms during your consultation — they vary by membership level. What we can tell you is that we take every introduction seriously and won't close your membership having made little effort. If your circumstances change or you need to pause, we'll accommodate that. We're not a subscription service that simply renews in the background; we're a team of people who want this to work for you.

How is this different from dating apps?

On an app, you are a profile competing for attention. Here, you are a person being represented by an experienced matchmaker who knows you. We handle everything — the searching, the screening, the logistics. You only meet people who have been specifically chosen for you, verified as genuinely single, and introduced at the right moment. There is no swiping, no ghosting, and no photograph-first judgements.

Who are your members?

Our members are typically professionals and business owners aged 40 to 65, based predominantly across the South of England, the Home Counties, and London — though we work nationally. They include solicitors, consultants, GPs, directors, entrepreneurs, and senior public sector professionals. What they share is a serious intent to find a lasting relationship and an appreciation that the best things in life require a proper investment of time and trust.

Request a private consultation.

Tell us a little about yourself — a senior consultant will call you within one working day to discuss whether membership is the right fit.

Initial Fit
Relationship Goals
Service Expectations
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Our memberships range from £3,950 to £15,950 depending on the level of support and personalisation required.

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